You know that scene in Ordinary People where Judd Hirsch (as a therapist in a cardigan) screams at Timothy Hutton? He pushes him with the toughest love until young Timothy realizes the truth (remember what the truth was)? I have always wanted to be Judd Hirsch'd like that. I have always wanted someone to yell no to my excuses, while poking that index finger on my sternum, until we get to the truth. I think I finally got Judd Hirsch'd!